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Christian Life Coaching
Make Your Dreams
Come Alive!
You need to identify your life purpose, and align your daily actions with it. So that you can keep moving closer to fully fulfilling your purpose. As your Christian Life Coach, together we will seek the guidance from the Holy Spirit. I will also give you coaching tools that are based on God's principles, to pursue your dreams, in order for you to achieve life success and fulfillment. My Life Coaching will encourage you to actively pursue all the dreams you have been putting on hold.
You will become more motivated, and be able you to perform at levels, you never knewor thought you could, with your new found increased confidence. You will be able to have that lifestyle you've always talked or thought about. The effectiveness of Christian life coaching has been proven to empower Christians all over the world, to experience authentic Christian living and abundance.
It is necessary now, because life has become so hectic and fickle, that it is so hard to find a confidant that is on your side (that won't backbite, tell everyone or judge you). This is why people choose professional like me, to help them instead. My job as a life coach is to give you undivided attention and proven life development tools!
You have been designed for greatness and uniqueness, and not just a cheap copy of someone else. Start living your best, authentic life, now. Use coaching to remove the mental, emotional and spiritual blocks that are holding you back. And eliminate all life distractions stopping you from manifesting your dreams.It's time to awaken all the dreams you have put to the back of your mind.
And wake up all the dry bones in your life. Learn to live a life with vision, passion and purpose. But not a life controlled by one problem to another. Coaching skills will to keep you focused on priorities. You could be the Donald Trump of the Christian world in the making. Keep your vision alive: Proverbs 29:18 - “ Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he” (KJV) Without any dreams or vision, you don't stand a chance to fulfil your dreams, and achieve any major success in your life. Your dream is a seed that God will use, to turn your life around, if backed with appropriate actions. Psalm 126:1 : When the LORD brought back the captives to Zion ; we were like men who dreamed. Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy. Then it was said among the nations, "The LORD has done great things for them." (NKJV)
We need to have a vision to know what to ask God. If we don't ask, we don't stand a chance of getting anything. When you hold on to what you can achieve through God, you will never settle for just good enough. Successful people don't have two heads, they just believe in their dreams enough to actively go for it with a big bang. And don't just remain in fantasy.
A dream is different from a fantasy. A dream motivates us (to take action) while a fantasy inspires us (to feel in a certain way: Matthew 7:8 – “For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.” (NIV) We must be sure that are our dreams align with God's will.
His will is revealed to us in his Word (Bible) and also through his Spirit (Holy Spirit). God has the bigger picture: Jeremiah 29:11 - “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.”God will never give you what will hinder you in the future, or what will limit you, even when you desire it.
He also wants you to bless others and his work. And not just selfishly spend it all on worldly desires: James 4:3 - “You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss, that you may spend it on your pleasures.” (NKJV) How Is Coaching
Different From Or Counselling With Your Pastor
Therapy and pastoral counseling are generally focused on looking at your past or a specific problem in other to solve it. When the problem is solved, the therapy or pastoral counseling ends. A Life coaching, on the other hand, focuses on helping you achieve the desires that God has placed in your heart, and your goals and objectives in any area of your life. Including personal, mental, emotional, physical, financial, social and as well as spiritual.
As your life Coach, I am interested in maximizing every part of your life. I am interested in your whole being. I believe that all these states of mind work together, and they affect on another. For instance if you are down (emotionally or mentally), you don't feel like doing much (physically), you don't earn much (financially), you may feel like mixing with people (socially) or be able to afford to pay for go out with them (financially).
These may lead to lower self esteem and reduced confidence (personal), and you may not like praying or worshipping as a result of all these (spiritually). Clearly, because we always look at things in isolation, there are lots of things happening to us that we may not realize are connected. And that they trigger on another, like above example. All we usually realize is that something is not right.
My coaching will increase your self awareness, which will help you to identify why you may not be feeling good about some areas of your life. It will also give your pastor's preaching, a better access to you. When we're preoccupied with issues, we are able to connect with our pastor spiritually, get a spiritual revelation from His preaching, even though we love God. This is because of mental, emotional and spiritual blocks.
When we don't deal with our blocks, it will become a stronghold, a phobia or a distraction to seeking God and his kingdom: Matthew 6:33 - “ But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” The problem is usually identifying the problem, and the source of the problem. Once we understand the problem, and ourselves, the solution may be simpler than we think.
Believers not growing spiritually, not being able to operate fully in authority, and pastors not having time to fully connect with congregation, has left a gap for Christian Life Coaching. People used to have a relationship with their pastors. Pastors used to be able to connect with people on a personal level, even visit them at home. But the world has changed, everyone is so busy now, because how complex our lifestyles have become. Even with pastors, we have to realize that even though they can be much anointed, they are humans to. They have their own needs to fulfill. Lifestyles have evolved since the times of Jesus. We all have bills to pay; otherwise we will be chucked out. Pastors need time to earn a living, because most congregations complain when the pastor spends from the tithe or offering. Some pastors are life coaches too. An example of this is Mark Chironna. I am also called to be a pastor.
Benefit Of Christian
Life Coaching Coaching provides a pair listening ears and sounding board in a non-judgmental and confidential environment. Coaching help you to manage life transition in an ever changing world. Whether it is a new job, a house move, losing a loved one, retirement, divorce, separation, leaving home, your kids leaving home e.t.c. A Christian Life Coach helps you to re-assess your life and identify your untapped opportunities and strengths, so that you can go to the next level.
I will support you in finding any information that empowers you, and enables you to move forward in life. God has placed everything in you. You were perfectly made. However, you may need increased self awareness, and self acceptance to start to realize what a gem you already are. You just need to learn how to take authority over your environment: Job 38:12 - “ Have you commanded the morning since your days began, And caused the dawn to know its place,”
You will acquire time management skills, and learn to identify time wasting habits, and energy leaks. You will have more time for people and things that really matter to you. You will identify what's working, and what is not working in your life. This would lead to increased success and more fulfillments.
You will uncover and eliminate patterns that have kept you from breaking free from self defeating habits/patterns. And go forward from any limitations that have kept you from achieving. I will encourage you to find the courage to reach for the stars, and not settle for less.
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Take your faith to another level
Take your dreams off the shelf
Overcome self-defeating habits and personal insecurities
Manage your relationships better
Develop greater awareness
Discover what you really want from life, from what you think you want in life
Identify what's most important to you
Set priorities and keep your focus till you achieve them
Make better, more informed decisions
Explore and evaluate all the possibilities to path choose the best path to success.
Explore your important ideas and get constructive feedback.
Living Purposefully with Increased Passion
Learn to not let people steal your joy. The joy of the Lord is your strength (see Nehemiah 8:10).
Total life makeover
Spiritual growth
Increased confidence and self esteem
Weight management issues
Goal setting and dynamic step-to-step action plan
Eliminating bad habits, detrimental imagination and enslaving thinking patterns
Manage life transition/change
Eliminate negative and ungodly behaviours
Improved body image and self image
Godly decision making
Overcoming fear of failure, fear of success, fear of unknown e.t.c.
Clarify your beliefs values, goals and intentions
Stop difficult to stop, limiting beliefs and negative confessions
Eliminate stress and develop better Time management
Create a greater joy and sense of peace, in all aspects of life
Improved health, communication and relationships
Greater emotional, mental control and produce better life results
Evaluate choices and find clarity in major life, career or business decisions
Comeback from your setbacks, trauma or pain
Identify and develop gifted and strengths. Utilize it to maximize your opportunities
Develop anointing or spiritual growth
Become assertive like Jesus
Increase business or professional performance
Turn your life experiences into a Christian book
What The Bible Say
About Coaching
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Proverbs 4:13 “Hold on to instruction, do not let it go; guard it well, for it is your life.”
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Proverbs 9:9 “Instruct a wise man and he will be wiser still; teach a righteous man and he will add to his learning.”
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Proverbs 11:14 “For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure.”
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Proverbs 12:15 “The way of a fool seems right to him, but a wise man listens to advice.”
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Proverbs 15:22 “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.”
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Proverbs 16:20 “Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers, and blessed is he who trusts in the Lord.”
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Proverbs 19:20 “Listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you will be wise.”
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Proverbs 27:17 “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.”
Christian Quotes – My
Gifts To You “Do not remember the former things, Nor consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing, Now it shall spring forth; Shall you not know it? I will even make a road in the wilderness And rivers in the desert.” – Jehovah: The most high God
“Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on.” - Jesus Christ: The lion of Judah
“But one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead.” - Apostle Paul
"In moods of discouragement or despair, never forget that the sunshine will ultimately come back, that it's absence never is permanent. Hang onto your faith, knowing that soon you will rise into the sunshine again." - Norman Vincent Peale
“I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had no where else to go. My own wisdom, and that of all about me, seemed insufficient for the day." - Abraham Lincoln
"Character is what you are in the dark." - Dwight L. Moody
"It is only the fear of God that can deliver us from the fear of man." - John Witherspoon
"A little faith will bring your soul to heaven , but a lot of faith will bring heaven to your soul." - Dwight L. Moody
"Decisions which are made in the light of God's Word are stable and show wisdom." - Vonette Z. Bright
"God cannot reveal anything to us if we have not His spirit.” - Oswald Chambers
"Any concern too small to be turned into a prayer is too small to be made into a burden." -Corrie Ten Boom
Live a life by design, and not from crisis to crisis - Randy Morrison
I may not be where I want to be, but I'm not where I used to be - Joyce Meyer
"One divine idea from God, will rock your world! If you decide to pursue it, your life will never be the same.” - Henrietta Elegunde
"If other people can give you total fulfilment, there is no need to have God. They can't, because they were not meant to” - Henrietta Elegunde
Every type of growth needs nurturing. Spiritual growth needs a nurtured relationship with Christ who is the way to the father, and the Holy Spirit, whose main purpose is to help you connect with the father. - Henrietta Elegunde
Prayer/Poem
May the road rise up to meet you;
May the wind always be at your back;
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
May the rain fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again may God hold.
you in the palm of his hand.
To your success and......
Tender Loving Care
Henrietta
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